Things that people do.....

Patronize....
yep. its pretty obvious when someone is patronizing you especially when they claim that you are "nice" on the 2nd min that they speak to you.

one must learn to decify compliments readily before your brain chemicals react overly positive to the compliment and make irrational choices under their influence....

sigh... I have to unofficiate the "I am nice" statement.... ha ha ha